I know I am lucky, I know I have a good life. I am healthy, I have a great family, enough money to get by, a wonderful hubby, perfect TEEN daughters, a lovely dog, bla, bla, bla. But sometimes I want to have the right to be pissed off with things that happen in my life and upset me.
Today I had this issue with the visa, passport, this FU**ING SH**, and I dared to complain about it.
Some of the replies I got:
- O dear, it could be so much worse. Imagine if someone gets sick in your family.
- Inaie, just remember you can choose between being angry or being OK.
- Oh! You are always so spoiled. Only child and all... You never have real complains or real problems.
- You complain about bureaucracy...What about me? I don't even have money to travel.
What about the ones who want to solve the problems for you? I am not talking about people with sugestions, or helpfull insights. I love those. I am talking about people who can not see all you want it to express your frustration!
Well, when I am annoyed (and annoying), when I am upset, angry, pissed off, all I want is some simphaty. All I need is someone to yell and scream with me. To help me find swear words.
That's all. After that I can let go and move on to solving the problem, as I always do.
Thank you Fabio for understanding my "grieving process"and letting me be. Thank you Francine (brazilian) and Rose, for helping me abuse the perpetrators! I am all ready to get on with life now.